In the Boudior with Dayla

Your Sex Questions Answered by the Lovely Dayla Cox, Passion Party Consultant Some say love… “My vagina lips are long. Is this normal? I am so embarrassed.” Molly, Arizona Dear Molly, Just like penises and nipples, V-Jays come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. A vagina with long lovely lips is referred to by some as a “Full Blown Rose” and is a fetish for some people. Some women even... [Read more]

5 Books on Love

Amanda Brooks shares with us five books about love, romance and sex! Perfect for those in or out of a relationship. Gone With the Wind There was never a heroine like Scarlet O’Hara. Scarlet is livelier on the page of this sweeping tale about misplaced passion than most people in real life. And you’ll be wishing for a Rhett Butler to pursue you through war, marriages, death, poverty and... [Read more]

Lashing Out

With: Black Mariah Recently, I discovered that many of you ladies are having difficulty applying your false eyelashes, or worse, won’t wear any at all, because you are not confident in applying your lashes. Consider this article your “falsies for newbies” guide to applying eyelashes properly and safely. 1. To apply eyelashes on your own, first begin by washing your face with a PH balanced,... [Read more]

Buying Feather Fans

Shake a tail feather with Black Mariah No need to post an emailed question this month because I have had DOZENS of emails from burlesque dancer wanting to purchase ostrich feather fans. I thought these emails came at a great time as I just purchased my third pair of ostrich feather fans, and let me tell you, I thought I knew everything about fans, and I did not. With that, let me educate all of you... [Read more]

Using Another Performer’s Song

I heard this song in a burlesque show a long time ago and I have been dying to use it in a number. However I feel a little weird about it…Do you think it might be OK for me to use the same song since the other performer did it a long time ago? Thanks, Maddie, NYC Dear Maddie, This is a good question! No one performer can claim the rights to any song legally. Songs belong to the artist that originally... [Read more]

Ask a Makeup Artist: Red Lipstick

Almost all of the big name pin-up models wear red lipstick. All of the modern beauty magazines say not to line your lips when wearing red, and to do minimal eye make-up. When I try and wear red, I’m just not pulling it off. How can I successfully create the vintage pinup look with red lipstick? — Samantha in Houston Samantha in Houston, Red lips are a classic pinup look and can pick... [Read more]

Choosing a Stage Name — July 2009

I need a burlesque name. I have researched and found these ridiculous formulas or generators for creating your burlesque name but I end up with names like Freckles McDermand Blvd, or Lil’ Comfort Bandersnatch (I did not make that up) . How can I find something original and, well, not like the names I just listed? ... [Read more]

Ask Black Mariah — June 2009

Dear Pin Curl, Many of my pictures that have been taken onstage or out with fans, my face appears to be lighter than my neck or the rest of my body. I have changes make up and nothing helps. I don’t look that way in the mirror after I apply my make-up. Please help. Ah yes. “Ghost face” as many refer to it, is a phenomenon that occurs when the flash from a camera reflects off of your... [Read more]

Ask Black Mariah — May 2009

I’m just getting into performing burlesque, and of course, I am very money conscious (read: broke). I am currently buying costumes, pasties, props…. How can I do some of this on the cheap? -Lucy, Pheonix AZ Good Question! Burlesque rookies have to start somewhere, but that doesn’t mean you have to LOOK like a rookie! Rarely does the budding burly-q babe have an extensive budget with... [Read more]

Ask Black Mariah

Ask A Burlesque Entertainer:   featuring Black Mariah   Q:     I want to be a burlesque dancer. Where do I start?   A:  There are many avenues available for pursuing a career as a burlesque dancer. The path you choose for your personal road to fringe and pasties will depend on your location, your budget, and the opportunities available for your debut performance. Explore the variety and... [Read more]